And I want to honor the quiet courage it took to get here.
THANK YOU FOR TAKING THE QUIZ
Your answers helped us get a clearer picture of how religious trauma may be showing up in your life—and where your healing journey can begin.
Below, you’ll find your personalized Blueprint video, along with a short message from me about what it means and how to take your next step.
THIS IS YOUR STARTING POINT
You did something big by taking the quiz — and it brought you here, to your first gentle step forward.
In this short video, Debra will help you understand what your results mean, what’s inside the Essentials Blueprint, and how to begin your healing journey without pressure, guilt, or fear.
If this path resonates, you can start today. If another feels more like home, you’re free to explore.
Either way — you’re not alone anymore.
CLICK ON THE VIDEO FOR YOUR RESULTS ↓
(🎁 Please don’t forget to grab your gift below before you leave!)
Your next step begins inside the circle.
This is where your personalized Blueprint lives—along with everything you need to begin healing gently, honestly, and in the presence of other women who truly understand.
Inside the Beyond The Hidden Barriers of Religious Trauma Circle, you’ll find:
✔️ Your personalized Blueprint Path—THE ESSENTIALS BLUEPRINT
✔️ Courses, tools, and practices to begin releasing the Hidden Barriers of Religious Trauma
✔️ A private, nurturing space to ask questions, be heard, and connect with women on similar journeys
✔️ A new way of experiencing God’s love—without fear, pressure, or performance
I didn’t even know religious trauma had a name—but it was shaping everything.
“My faith, my parenting, even my ability to rest. I used to beg God to help me feel safe. This program helped me find the safety I was missing—in Him, in myself, and in sisterhood. I didn’t feel alone anymore. I finally had words for what I was carrying—and a path forward.”
— Tekyia R. Member of Beyond The Hidden Barriers of Religious Trauma Circle & The Essentials Blueprint
I used to live in constant fear—of God, of emotions, of never being enough.
“I had no idea how deeply religious trauma was impacting me until I finally said yes to healing. The Essentials Blueprint helped me rebuild my faith from the inside out. Now I talk to God without fear. I set boundaries without guilt. I’ve finally found the joy, peace, and connection I always longed for—and I’m not going back.”
— Kristina T. Member of Beyond The Hidden Barriers of Religious Trauma Circle & The Essentials Blueprint
I thought I had to earn love—from people, from God.
“But this journey showed me that love has always been here. The Essentials Blueprint helped me release fear and rewrite my story with truth. Now I feel rooted in my faith—not ruled by it. I believe in myself again. And I’m no longer afraid to become who I was created to be.”
— Simone F. Member of Beyond The Hidden Barriers of Religious Trauma Circle & The Essentials Blueprint
The He Is Enough Book & Truth Over Tradition Mini-Course
My Journey Of Overcoming Generational Spiritual Abuse And Religious Trauma
A Story Of Unraveling Trauma, Restoring Truth, And Coming Home — To My Stolen Faith And The God I Longed To Know.
I’m so excited! Having the new workbook style with exercises and visuals is leading me to healing!
“I just mapped out my past trauma in just 4 pages. I can’t believe how straightforward this process is. I can only hope my kids will want this book too. The visuals make it accessible instead of dry and difficult. So important.”
— Sara T., Centerville, TN
💫 I know what I want right now – take me right to the order page.
The Circle + He Is Enough Book & Audiobook, LIVE Reading Circle with Debra, & Truth Over Tradition Mini-Course
💫 I’m not sure if this blueprint is right for me. I want to choose the path that speaks to my heart.
$17|The Essentials Blueprint, $397 or $77/mo|The Growth Path Blueprint, Apply|The Deep Dive Blueprint
The Three Power Centers 3-Part Audio Mini-Series
GENTLY RECLAIMING WHAT WAS LOST THROUGH RELIGIOUS TRAUMA
🎁 As a thank you for taking the quiz, I’d love to gift you a 3-part audio mini-series I created just for this moment.
This tender 3-part audio mini-series is for women just beginning to untangle the impact of religious trauma. Each 6–8 minute reflection explores a key area often affected by spiritual harm—your relationship with yourself, with God and life, and with others.
Gently and compassionately, Debra Shafer helps you begin to reclaim what was silenced, severed, or shamed. No pressure. Just presence. Let this be your first safe step home.
🎧 Listen to the Audio Series
🎧 AUDIO #1: COMING HOME TO YOURSELF (8 minutes)
THIS FIRST REFLECTION explores how religious trauma can fracture your relationship with your own heart. If you’ve internalized messages like “I’m too much,” “I’m not enough,” “I don’t matter,” “I’m Invisible,” or “God is disappointed in me,” this audio will help you begin to soften those stories. You’ll be gently invited to return to presence, compassion, and truth—without fixing or striving.
Audio 1: Power Center One: Relationship to Self From Shame to Presence, Growth, and Gentle Curiosity
🎧 AUDIO #2: RECLAIMING TRUST IN LIFE AND A GOD THAT LOVES YOU (7 minutes)
THIS SECOND REFLECTION holds space for the deep rupture that occurs when you’ve been taught God is distant, punishing, or conditional. If you’ve felt spiritually exhausted or disconnected, you’ll be invited to reimagine your relationship with God—not as someone to appease, but as a loving powerful force who delights in your existence.
Audio 2: Power Center Two: Relationship to Life & God From Lack to Receptivity, Co-Creation, and Wonder
🎧 AUDIO #3: CREATING SAFE CONNECTION WITH OTHERS (6 minutes)
THIS FINAL REFLECTION addresses the ways religious trauma can isolate you—from others, from community, and from your own voice. If you’ve learned to shrink, perform, or carry your pain alone, this audio offers a healing alternative: honest connection. You’ll be guided toward safe, mutual relationship—where you can be seen, supported, and loved as you are.
Audio 3: Creating Safe Connection With Others Power Center Three: Relationship to Others From Isolation to Connection
📩 Special Deliveries Coming Your Way
Over the next few days, I’ll be sending you a series of supportive, truth-telling emails. These aren’t just reminders—they’re part of your healing.
You’ll hear more about the hidden barriers, the blueprint path you’re on, and how to feel safe, seen, and supported every step of the way.
Be sure to add 💌 debra@healingreligioustrauma.org to your safe sender list so you don’t miss a thing.
Just one more thing…
“You are not too broken. You are not too late. You are right on time.”
— Debra
We’re so honored to walk this part of the journey with you. Your place is already waiting.
Beyond The Hidden Barriers Of Religious Trauma Circle
We bring together brave Christian women to uncover the HIDDEN BARRIERS of religious trauma and reframe our connection to God by unraveling the trauma, instilling the truth, and creating a new story.
HEAL THE HARM. KEEP YOUR FAITH.
Here, we heal the harm, not the heart of your faith, guiding you back to the love, truth, and belonging you were always meant to know. We blend a woman-centered approach that gently uncovers the hidden barriers and false concepts seeded by adverse religious experiences with the timeless, deeper, more accurate truth and tender ways Jesus used as He walked alongside those seeking healing.
💫 I know what I want right now – take me right to the order page.
The Circle + He Is Enough Book & Audiobook, LIVE Reading Circle with Debra, & Truth Over Tradition Mini-Course
💫 I’m not sure if this blueprint is right for me. I want to choose the path that speaks to my heart.
$17|The Essentials Blueprint, $397 or $77/mo|The Growth Path Blueprint, Apply|The Deep Dive Blueprint
Remember the report I promised?
Here’s your unique behind-the-scenes look at how other women answered the same quiz questions. You’ll see how your journey compares and know you’re not the only one walking this path.
Copyright 2025 Debra Shafer – 🌱 Seed of Potential – A Benevolent Organization
